Perpetually Positive

Exploring techniques that Rowan University students do to cope with stress and negative thoughts

Farewell..Its been fun!

Sadly, the semester is coming to a close and unfortunately, so is this blog. Like I said in my introduction post, this blog was a requirement for my Online Journalism course at Rowan University. Although this was a mandatory assignment, I had so much fun with it and learned SO much!

How we, as college students, choose to de-stress and stay positive throughout our busy lives, can be different from other students. Some gravitate towards more physical activities and others go towards more of a verbal and cathartic vibe. No matter what the strategy is, all that matters is that you have at least one to de-stress at the end of the day. There are hundreds of techniques that you can do and if you haven’t found one yet, keep a look out at your local events or university activities.

If you missed out on any of my posts, here are five of my favorite ones!

  1. Yoga With a Twist!
  2. Spotlight: Lindsay Mason, a Licensed Professional Counselor at Rowan
  3. Famous Failures: 10 prominent figures that initially were not successful
  4. A walk through Rowan University’s beautiful campus
  5. Rowan’s Writing Center: A de-stressing place to be tutored

Thanks for reading my blog! I hope you all stay positive and keep on spreading it!

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Rowan University’s first ever, Hollybash, to celebrate the end of the semester

On Friday, April 29, Rowan University had the first ever event called Hollybash-named after the oldest building at Rowan, Hollybush Mansion. The Office of Student Activities (OSA) planned and organized Hollybash, which ran from 1p.m. to 9p.m. on the Hollybush Green. Throughout the day, students with valid Rowan I.D.’s could experience different free activities such as henna art, body paint, caricatures, life-size board games, zip lining and the ferris wheel! Also, there were several different food trucks that were either Rowan associated or trucks from local restaurants such as Carolina Blue. The first 1,500 students received a $10 food voucher for the trucks.

For the musical aspect of Hollybash, Rowan student groups were featured such as Profecy A Capella Group and Battle of the Bands winner, Steven Tedman. The main musical performance was a pop-rock band named American Authors who performed at 8p.m. They played their all-time famous song, “Best Day of My Life.” Devon Dyer, the director of live events at Rowan, stated why American Authors was picked. “We picked them because they have a very bright and happy sound, which we thought would be perfect for the environment we were trying to create,” Dyer said.

 

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*All images taken by S. Lelah

Hollybash was first conceptualized two years ago at an OSA’s Executive Board meeting in an attempt to replace Profstock, which has not been too successful in the past. It is at the end of the year so students have the opportunity to take a break and enjoy themselves before finals week begins. “Most of the time, students bury themselves in work and forget to take care of themselves and relax every once in a while,” Dyer stated. “By attending this event, students can forget about their problems and have fun with the Rowan community.”

Joseph Ordille, a sophomore electrical engineering major, talked a little bit about how Hollybash impacted his stress level. “I have five finals coming up and they are all tough ones so I really needed this to get my mind off things,” Ordille stated. “Nothing is more relaxing than music, games and fried Oreos.”

Some students were a little upset about the weather on Friday. Shaun Mayo expressed his view on this factor. “I really didn’t want it to be this miserable out. I think I’d be in a better mood if it was warm and sunny,” Mayo said. “However, I still enjoy this positive atmosphere and being around everyone else because they are so happy.”

Despite the overcast and a little rain, over 2,300 students came out for the event. Molly Kahl-Winter is junior, Elementary Education major who is optimistic that Hollybash will continue on for the years to  come. “I’ll be graduating next year but I hope that other students will get to experience what I did with my friends,” Kahl-Winter said. “I can’t be more thankful for the terrific mindset that Hollybash put me in.”

To listen more about Molly’s positive experience, listen to the interview below!

*Photo by M. Kahl-Winter
*Song by American Authors, “Best Day of My Life”

Thanks for reading and listening. Stay positive!

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Rowan’s Writing Center: A de-stressing place to be tutored

Finals week is coming up at Rowan University and it is known to be a very stressful time! If you need help on your senior thesis, research paper, composition portfolio or any other piece of writing, the Writing Center is the place to go. The tutors here are very dedicated to help you through any stage of the writing process you are at. This area in the library, room 131, is a comfortable, nonjudgmental space where students can get their thoughts together. After an appointment with a writing tutor, you will walk away in a more positive mindset and better attitude about the result of your essay.

To make an appointment with a tutor, click here.

Click play to watch a video about Rowan’s Writing Center!

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Spotlight: Victoria Ramirez, a very busy Rowan University student

Victoria Ramirez is a sophomore Rowan University student who is involved in multiple clubs and activities on campus. This interview with Ramirez can give us an insight of how busy a college student can be. She mentions her techniques of de-stressing throughout her busy schedule that truly help her stay positive and spread positivity to others. Ramirez also offers advice to the many fellow students that feel overwhelmed with their hectic, daily routines.

Press play to listen to the interview!

Rowan University Student, Victoria Ramirez-Photo by S. Lelah


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Motivational Monday: 10 inspiring quotes that will get you through your day

Quotes are a quick tool that you can read when you are having a tough time starting your day or just have a lack of motivation, especially on Mondays. These little sayings are often abstract and can make you think in different perspectives that you might not have considered before. Here are a couple of my favorite motivation quotes by established people that I like to reference when I need it the most.

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius

“When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt

“Aim for the moon. If you miss, you may hit a star.”- W. Clement Stone

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” –Thomas A. Edison 

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” – Helen Keller 

“Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.” –John F. Kennedy 

“Do you want to know who you are? Don’t ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you.” –Thomas Jefferson 

“Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.” –Harriet Beecher Stowe 

“If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.” – H. G. Wells 

“Accept the challenges so that you can feel the exhilaration of victory.” –George S. Patton 


 

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A walk through Rowan University’s beautiful campus

Sometimes when are preoccupied with the stresses and distractions that come about in our daily lives, we forget to appreciate the beautiful areas around us. At Rowan University in Glassboro, there are several areas throughout the main campus that anyone can sit down and enjoy everything that the outdoors can offer us. Whether you need to study for an exam that is coming up, meet up with friends or even just sit an relax, these places around campus can be great resources.

Spring is here and that means that is time to enjoy the warm weather and have a change of atmosphere, especially when we’ve been hibernating indoors all winter. Stop by one of these scenic areas at Rowan to study, brainstorm ideas or just embrace nature’s ambiance to keep a positive mindset!

Locations:

Reflection Pond- Next to Rowan Hall

Rowan’s Clock- In front of Savitz Hall

Gazebo- Next to Magnolia Hall

Cherry Tree Rest Stop-In front of Science Building

Pathways with benches- Across from 322, in front of Hawthorne Hall

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Spotlight: Dr. Barbara Becker-Holstein, another positive-thinking blogger

In addition to this blog, there are numerous other blogs that focus on positivity and having an openness to the idea of having this mindset. Some bloggers focus on specific sub themes of this concept such as spreading positivity, positivity evolution and how to turn negative situations into positive ones. Dr. Barbara Becker-Holstein has a blog called “The Enchanted Self” where she discusses rediscovering happiness to those who have lost it or lack it. Becker-Holstein is a positive psychologist who grew up in Norwalk, Connecticut and moved to Long Island, NJ to create her own private practice.Her practice has been around for over 19 years. She received her Doctorate in Education from Boston University and is a member of The American Psychological Association. In her sessions, she focuses on her clients strengths rather than their weaknesses.

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Dr. Barbara Becker-Holstein, a positive psychologist blogger- Photo contributed by B. Becker-Holstein

Becker-Holstein started this blog over 11 years ago and includes information about the idea of “The Enchanted Self,” blessings, newsletters and other resources about herself. Her first post was April 17, 2005 where she advertised her practices and discussed the core principles of “The Enchanted Self.” Her favorite thing about running this blog is the fact that she gets to have contact with people around the world. “I have many people from other countries and continents respond or let me know via email that they are enjoying the blog,” Becker-Holstein stated.

Regarding being a blogger, she finds it hard to find the time to keep up with it. “Ideally, I would like to have an assistant that follows my work and my ideas and takes responsibility for putting up entries,” she said.

As for how blogging should play in the future of journalism she thinks, “we will move more and more to pictures as a way to communicate and very short videos.” She plans to implement more photos into her blog posts.The advice she gives to people who wants to maintain a blog is to “make sure you have the time and energy to do entries at least two or three times a week.” Dr. Becker-Holstein continues to update her blog and hopes to expand her fan base.

For more information, visit her website by clicking here.


To contact Dr. Barbara Becker-Holstein her phone number is 732-571-1200 or email her at  drbarbara@enchantedself.com.


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Famous Failures: 10 prominent figures that initially were not successful

Failing when we want to complete a task or achieve a goal can be very discouraging to us. We try over and over again and the product of this determination sometimes isn’t what we expect or desire. Even though this can be the reality and negativity is prominent here, we have to understand that we will not succeed if we do not try in the first place. We have to learn from our mistakes in order to improve our strategies for future endeavors.

Going off this idea, here are some famous people that at first failed at what they wanted to do but eventually got to where they wanted to be.

 

  1. Walt Disney was fired from a newspaper for “lacking imagination” and “having no original ideas”  (Source: Business Insider).
  2. Albert Einstein was passed over for an engineering job at Toyota and left unemployed (Source: Venture.org).
  3. Steve Jobs, was 30-years-old when he was left devastated and depressed after being unceremoniously reomoved from the company he started (Source: Nextshark.com).
  4. Marilyn Monroe was dropped by Columbia Pictures because her producer told her that she wasn’t pretty or talented enough to be an actress (Source: Yahoo.com).
  5. J.K. Rowling was unemployed, divorced, and raising a daughter on social security while writing the first Harry Potter novel. It was rejected by 12 publishing companies (Source: the guardian.com).
  6. Colonel Harland David Sanders couldn’t sell his chicken. More than 1,000 restaurants rejected him until he made his own (Source: yourstory.com).
  7. Stephen King‘s first novel, Carrie, was rejected 30 times. He proceeded to throw it in the trash (Source: mentalfloss.com).
  8. Oprah Winfrey was demoted in her early job as a journalist at Baltimore’s WJZ-TV but a couple years later, her talk show was the main one for 25 years (Source: huffintonpost.com).
  9. Henry Ford was a failure at three businesses before finally succeeding with Ford Motor Company at age 53 (Source: todaymade.com).
  10. Lucille Ball had many early films that were failed and considered “B” movies. Eventually, she became the star of the show “I Love Lucy” (Source: huffingtonpost.com).

 

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Spotlight: Lindsay Mason, a Licensed Professional Counselor at Rowan

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Psychologist, Lindsay Mason- Photo contributed by L. Mason

Lindsay Mason is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPR) who works for Rowan University. In 2011, she received her Masters of Science in Education in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Fordham University. Her professional interests include grief, stress management, risky behaviors and substance abuse treatment. She is one of the founders of the Let’s Talk program at Rowan University and also one of the five therapists who are involved in the sessions.

1. Can you tell me an overview description of the Let’s Talk program?

Let’s Talk is a program that provides easy access to informal, confidential consultations with counselors from the Wellness Center.  Counselors hold walk-in hours at five different locations around campus Monday through Friday; no appointment necessary.

2. How and why did you create Let’s Talk (was there a need for this program)?

There were a number of reasons we started Let’s Talk here at Rowan.  Let’s Talk was actually created and implemented first by Cornell University to reach students who may not have been coming into the counseling center because they might not be sure what it’s like to talk to a counselor.  Other universities around the country implemented the program and also found that it was helpful in reaching students who may not need ongoing therapy, but were interested in the support and perspective of a counselor.  We started the program to provide another access point for students who may a specific problem and want to discuss it with a confidential source or get the experience of talking to counselor for the first time.

3. When was it created?

We started in the spring of 2015 with one location (the student center) and in the fall of 2015 we began the program with all five locations; the student center, the rec center, SJICR, Academic Success Center and Rowan Hall.

4. How effective do you think this program is? 

I find that the program is highly successful in providing a space for students to discuss specific issues or obtain support and guidance in managing difficult emotions or situations.  We have seen students come in to all five sites throughout the semester, so we know students know about the program and are using it!

5. How does this differ from formal counseling like group therapy or individual counseling at the Wellness Center?

Counselors at the Wellness Center (Counseling and Psychological Services) provide individual therapy which is ongoing counseling, consisting of weekly or biweekly sessions that range from 45 to 50 minutes.  Group therapy is held on a weekly basis with a number of students and is run by one of the counselors.  Let’s Talk is different because it is a walk-in, brief consultation services.  Counselors meet with the student for 15 to 20 minutes and although the sessions are confidential, it does not constitute as formal psychotherapy.  The counselors will provide support, perspectives on what the issue is, and most likely referrals to where else the student may be able to receive assistance.  Although students can return to Let’s Talk from time to time, it is not meant to function as a weekly service.

6. What topics are discussed during these sessions?

Topics at sessions range widely from: anxiety about academics, problems with relationships (either romantic or friendships), roommate issues, homesickness, depression, loss of motivation, concern about how to connect on campus just to name a few.

7. How do therapy programs like Let’s Talk promote positive-thinking skills and motivation?

Let’s Talk can help students talk out loud about their concerns and issues, and at times discover within the brief 15 to 20 minute consultation how their thinking patterns may be impacting their mood and motivation.  Counselors may help point out strategies and techniques to help manage some symptoms, which could include how to use positive self-talk and problem-solving skills to manage current issues.

8. How do these programs aid with de-stressing college students?

Students most often report feeling supported and encouraged by Let’s Talk and other programs from the counseling center.  Often times just feeling heard can provide a sense of relief and comfort, which can decrease feelings of anxiety or stress.  Also, the consultations can provide students with concrete skills to help manage stress which helps in the overall reduction in symptoms.

9. What would you say to students who are hesitant to use Let’s Talk?

Just give it a try! What’s the worst that happens? The beauty of Let’s Talk is that it’s a drop-in service, so the student doesn’t waste a whole lot of time or energy if it isn’t what they expected.  Also, it’s not a weekly service, and there are five different locations with five different counselors, so try out different spots! And hey, it’s no cost so how nice is that?!​

 

For more information including location and times of Let’s Talk, click here.


 

Contact Lindsay Mason

Email: masonl@rowan.edu

Phone:  856-256-4333

 

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Top Five Scenic Parks in Gloucester County

We all need some kind of a break when we are overwhelmed and consumed with multiple essays, exams, reports and other homework assignments. If we do not get this “pause” in our day to day work-filled schedules, stress, anxiety and negativeness will build up to the point where it reaches our breaking points. Before this build-up occurs, we can try to limit these harmful emotions by taking some time to ourselves to relax and refocus on keeping  mentally healthy while balancing school work.

There are many different techniques to cope with these daily stresses.Visiting a park and taking a stroll through a scenic path is a strategy that is both close in distance and FREE! The following five parks in Gloucester County that I picked are less than 15 minutes from Rowan University and places where one can go to relax and enjoy the wonders of the outdoors.

 

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1. James G. Atkinson Memorial Park, Huffville

This park is a whopping 66 acres, full of open spaces and forests that feature several walking paths. The main path you can walk to leads to the park’s lake, Bethel Lake, to catch a glance at ducks, turtles and even eels! Atkinson Park is perfect for people who are beginners at wildlife-watching and are interested in seeing finches, robins, blue jays and wild turkeys.

 

 


     2. Alcyon Lake Park, PitmanIMG_3072

Alcyon Lake Park offers a lot of different scenery in terms of plants like trees, shrubs and flowers. Walking down the many paths through the forests there, one can find pine oaks, river birches and wild cherry trees in the area. To make thescene more relaxing, songbirds are usually at this park during the early springtime. If you’re lucky, you may be even to spot the Great Horned Owl that nest in the trees.

 

 

 


 

IMG_3077   3. Chestnut Branch Park, Mantua

This bigger park is 109 acres with a different kind of scene that is rare in most parks. Chestnut Branch Park ranges from wooded areas to wetlands. This is significant because it attracts a different species of woodland creatures and birds.These animals can be easily spotted hanging out on poplar and oak trees. If you go there, make sure to head down the dirt path to see the peaceful Chestnut Branch River. 

 

 


 

    4. Scotland Run Park, Clayton

IMG_3078This is the largest park in this list at 1000 acres with the most variety of animals from woodland to lakeside creatures. There are multiple different styles of maintained trails for running, biking or just strolling and taking in the different sights, smells and sounds. At the park there has even been sightings of the majestic Bald Eagle fly around the lake. Keep a look-out!

 

 

 

 


 

     5. Washington Lake Park, Sewell

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Washington Lake Park is one of my personal favorites because of the koi pond and the diverse birds that are attracted by this like the herons and ducks. All the walking trails are natural and as you can venture from the beginning to the end of the trail, the scenery changes. You can expirerenc different ecosystems and various bird species such as songbirds, wrens, sparrows and red-tailed hawks. My favorite lake at this park is called Washington Lake, which is the largest out of the many others. Below is a picture of it in the autumn, my favorite time of year!

 

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Washington Lake- Photo by Claudia Griffo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

For more information including hours of operation, location and other activities offered just click the name of the park. 

Thanks for reading. Stay positive!

 

*All photos of the Google Maps were screenshots from my iPhone.
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